I also managed to fit in a haircut
yesterday. Always an interesting
experience. My preference when I’m
getting a haircut is to relax, close my eyes and check out for those few minutes. Sometimes the one cutting my hair realizes
that and lets me escape. Not so much
yesterday. I drew one of the new
stylists. I never care who cuts it. I don’t even care much what it looks
like. I don’t have to see it much. She did her dead-level best to engage me in
the idle chatter that is the usual fare of the haircutting world. Her first attempt was to go for the
weather. “Beautiful day.” “No rain in the forecast.” I was polite.
I gave my very best one-word answers and smiled. Maybe it was the smile I should have left
off, because she moved on to a new topic.
Wanted to know if I had been to the shrimp festival. I sighed to myself and tried my best to warm
up a little bit, resigning myself to the obvious. She was not going to let up. I told her a little bit about the family
version we had been to over the weekend with Christina’s Dad providing the
shrimp dishes. That’s all it took. She was off.
She asked question after question as she cut. Again, I did my best to stay focused on what
she was saying.
Finally I guess she
couldn’t think of any more to say about shrimp, so she switched topics
again. This time she told me she and her
husband were moving this weekend and wondered what internet provider they
should use. I am certainly no connoisseur
of cable, but one thing she said leapt out at me and lurched me from my
lethargy. Moving. To. Jamaica
Beach. Yep. That’s what she said. And suddenly it all became clear. That’s
why I was supposed to stay connected in the conversation. I told her I was the pastor of the church
there, and we talked some more about who we use and who Nathan uses. By the time she finished with my hair, I was
handing her one of my church cards and she was assuring me they would come to
church and visit. OK, Lord. I’ll try to pay closer attention next time to
the opportunities you put right in my lap to represent you.
Colossians 4:5-6 says, “Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every
opportunity. Let your conversation be
always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer
everyone.”
Father, thank you for that conversation
yesterday at the barber shop. Woke me up
a little bit when I least expected it.
Amen.
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