Saturday, March 12, 2016

March 12 – “The Anderson wedding wrap”

Well, we got Cory and Sara all married up last night.  There were a few tense moments, though.  I think Sara’s grandma was a bit excited to get things going.  I told her that when she was seated we would begin.  So she went and got herself seated about ten minutes early.  One of the groomsmen successfully retrieved her, though.  And speaking of groomsmen, the tall, very thin guy?  Popped a gut button on his tux before we got started.  The skinniest guy in the whole church.  The other groomsmen were all willing to make necessary adjustments, like buttoning just the bottom button, but that wouldn’t have gone over too well with the myriad of female “observers.”  Fortunately, the handy dandy representative of the church leapt into  action, though, and had a safety pin out in no time.  Crisis averted.

Next up was the request of the bride that I appeal to the crowd not to use their cell phones to take pictures during the ceremony.  I figured I had to do something to get their attention first, so I regally approached the stage.  Once there I pulled out my own cell phone and with great rigor and exaggerated motions, I took a selfie with the crowd in the background.  Then I turned to the group and said, "Sara has asked that you not do anything like that with your cell phones during the ceremony.  And remember, she is a cop, so if you do she will probably arrest you.”

Ah, stress.  Happens every time there is a small child involved in the wedding.  This time  there were no less than five.  The three little flower girls were as cute as they could be, of course.  They apparently decided early on that they were not walking down the aisle by themselves, though.  And I guess they didn’t know each other well enough to be comforted by that presence.  So they chose the next best thing.  Well, from their perspective I guess it was always the first best thing.  Just took us longer to catch up with their logic.  Each of them had a Mommy who was in the bridal party, so they simply took Mom’s hand and walked with her.  Precious stuff.  And their subsequent antics during the ceremony were the stuff videos were made to capture.  Non-stop wiggling.  Felt like I was at one of our Seaside family worship services.  My favorite came when one of them sat down on the step very quietly, just as Mom asked of her.  But she oh-so-slowly inched her way across the front of the stage, still sitting, mind you.  Masterfully done.

A solution for the boys’ dilemma was not so easy, however.  Ethan, the older guy did just fine.  He’s a bit of a showman anyway.  In fact he did his best to help when Little Jameson balked at the thought of the long walk into the sea of strangers.  No amount of encouragement was reaching him.  Jameson simply wouldn’t budge, in spite of the promise of Skittles and a reunion with Daddy up at the front.  Not worth a battle, though.  The bride was fine with whatever happened, so we pushed on through without Jameson, who calmly enjoyed the ceremony playing with his toy fire truck and munching on Skittles.  So did his Dad.  The munching on Skittles part, not the fire truck.

Oh, and speaking of Ethan, that showman disguised as a ring bearer.  When I asked, “Who presents this woman to be married to this man?” the bride’s Dad dutifully and respectfully answered, “I do,” at which point an echo was heard bouncing through the building.  It was Ethan crying out, “I do, too.” 

The post-wedding photography session went about as expected.  Lots of family stuff around the stage area.  Then they headed into the church’s little outdoor atrium.  Lots of pretty flowers and greenery.  Perfect backdrop for even more photos.  The favorite segment of that session was by far not included in the planned repertoire of the camerawoman.  The groom made a valiant attempt to leap into the arms of one of the groomsmen in a staged repeat of a certain move made famous in the movie Dirty Dancing.  Well, he made two attempts, actually.  And neither of them were particularly successful.  Fortunately for the happy couple, though, a certain renegade pastor happened to have his cell phone camera in video mode at an opportune moment or two.  We’ll have to get that one shared in all the right places.

We all finally made our way up to Texas City where the reception was to be held.  Yep.  Ceremony in Galveston.  Reception in Texas.  Not many people can say their wedding covered two separate countries in thirty minutes’ time.  There was a bit of a snafu with the food, though.  Catering was by none other than Chick-Fil-A, a fitting tribute to the simple tastes of the bride and groom.  But somewhere there was a missed communication concerning mashed potatoes and green beans.  Neither were anywhere on the premises.  I heard one supervisor making tentative plans to nab a batch of taters from over at the KFC, but I’m not sure if that ever came to fruition.  Mashed potatoes did make an appearance, though.  As did some of those little weenies.  But hey, Chick-Fil-A is all about the chicken, right?

Probably my favorite part of the entire night was reuniting with a huge crowd of Seaside youth who have all grown up and are doing their best to act like adults.  Kind of like Cory and Sara were doing.  Let’s see if I can get them all mentioned.  Mama Chris and Pastor Kelley, of course.  And semi-adults Melissa, Rita, Anne, Eric, and I suppose we have to include Marcus in this category.  But then there were Megan, Cody, Cory, Jacob, Houston, Allie, Melissa, Ashley, Sydney, Jimmy, Travis, Matt, Lora, Kelly, Josh, Thomas, MacKenzie, and Nathan.  Quite the makings for a full-blown reunion sometime in the future, don’t you think?  We did numerous photos together at the picture booth, so at least a few of them should be showing up on FaceBook.  There were quite a few other Seasiders in attendance as well.  Connoisseur of fine Chick-Fil-A dips Ed graciously allowed Chris and I to join him and Lauren and Cathy at their table.   Twinkle-toes Billy, was there, owning the dance floor with his gorgeous dance partner (and daughter) Emily.  And good ol’ Silver-Nose Jamie.  He took creative artwork to the extreme.  The bride and groom had a canvas set up where people could leave their fingerprints and a brief message.  Get it?  Fingerprints for the two cops?  I loved the creativity.  And so did Jamie.  Except he was apparently told by somebody that the smudges on the canvas were all nose prints.  I mean, come on.  Anybody can do fingerprints.  But nose prints?  Now that’s special.  So Jamie buried his nose in the inkpad and squashed it upon the canvas, making his indelible mark – his nose mark.  Like I said, good ol’ Silver-nose.

I’m sure there were plenty of others that I missed mentioning, and plenty of anecdotes that were certainly worthy of telling.  Well, maybe not that worthy.  But with that, I join with Cory and Sara in declaring the mission a success.  They slapped a punctuation mark on the wedding ceremony by smacking a high five just before the kiss.  So picture here an open palm, all ready for you to connect with it on your screen.  Or maybe a lips emoji that you can literally smack.  Or maybe … just say a prayer for Cory and Sara, get some rest, and I’ll see you in church tomorrow morning.

Revelation 5:13-14 says, “Then I heard every creature in heaven and on earth and under the earth and on the sea, and all that is in them, singing: ‘To him who sits on the throne and to the Lamb be praise and honor and glory and power, for ever and ever!’
The four living creatures said, ‘Amen,’ and the elders fell down and worshiped.


Father, walk with Cory and Sara in their new life together.  Draw them closer to you so they can get closer to each other.  Amen.

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