Cailyn
came over just because she missed us.
Yes. We are that awesome. She stayed with us for a few hours while her
parents ran some errands. While she was
here, she sat next to Mom and joined her in looking at some pictures we have
arranged in a book for Mom. Over the
last week or so Mom has been quite verbal and communicative, but it’s like she
has just awakened from a deep coma with absolutely no memory of her past. And her short term memory of faces seems to
be predicated on how often she encounters people. She knows Chris well, but then she sees her
most often. All day and in most cases
most of the night as well. She usually
asks me if I am Kelley, so she connects my face and name pretty well. Oh, and she knows Betty Head. That’s her childhood friend who still comes
over about once a week for our home Bible study. Beyond that she begins having lots of
problems. She started a notebook where
she jots down people’s names and some facts about them to help jog her
memory. That’s exactly what I do at
church. Guess I come by it
honestly. So I put together a very
simple little notebook with captioned pictures showing the people she sees most
often, basically our kids and grandkids.
In the back I add pictures of people we might be seeing in the near future. For example, my niece and her husband and son
are staying with us over the next few days, so their picture made its way into
the book. We are supposed to see my
brothers this afternoon, so I added pictures of them and their wives as
well. So, these are the photos Cailyn
and Mom were perusing when I heard this exchange:
Mom:
Who is Fran Vaughan?
Cailyn:
She’s in our family.Mom: I know but how does she fit in? Where would you find her?
Cailyn: I don’t know how to get to houses. I’m only a kid.
Well,
Cailyn, you may be “only a kid,” but the patience and love you showed by
sitting with your MeeMaw and looking at pictures was nothing short of
phenomenal. That’s what you call going
and doing something. I’m proud of you.
Ephesians
5:15-16 says, “Be very careful, then, how
you live — not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity,
because the days are evil.”
Father,
thanks for the simple wisdom you instill in little children. Help me learn from it. Amen.
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