Monday, November 30, 2020

November 30 – “Sports Report: Turkey Bowl 2020”

It was a cold, blustery day at the Sycamore Street Turkey Bowl this wretched 2020.  21 mile an hour winds and a game time temperature of 54.  The game didn’t even begin on time.  In fact, because of a serious rain event, it was a little more than 24 hours late for game time.  The players were chomping at the bit to get the game on the road, so to speak, especially the young break-out rookie quarterback Luke.  The trio of MVP’s from two years ago were back in action.  Micah, Zak, and Jachin even ended up on the same team for a time.  Caleb drew kudos from the crowd as the only football star with the guts to play an entire game … in those slip-on, flip flop type shoes.  Amazing.  Noa was the female entry in the game this year.  She did well, but the allure of warmth eventually drove her inside.  Ezra jetted out into the field of play once or twice, but he was more concerned with stocking the imaginary ice cream stand in the back of the pickup truck.  He was the only one who could operate the dolly.  AnnaGrace was a beautiful stand operator, and the imaginary ice cream was absolutely delicious.  Sadly, Cailyn was tied up elsewhere during the game. That rounds out the roll call of the players. 

 

After the inaugural Turkey Shoot the night before in which Uncle Nathan and Uncle Josh taught some rather treacherous secrets of the art of air soft wars, football seemed a welcome respite. 

 

The sides were picked, with Rookie Luke ending up on the team with his mentor and Dad.  The first kickoff was in the air.  The game had begun.  As expected, Luke was nothing short of amazing in his debut.  He completed more than a few passes, and even caught a few in his role doubling as a split end.  Amazing.  Truly amazing.

 

Relegated to the sidelines, allegedly on Injured Reserve, but scheduled to become eligible at any moment, was the grand old timer.  Forced to endure the promising showing of the young QB, he grudgingly cheered on the teams, even to the point of assisting in referee-required decisions.  It was somewhat of a seesaw battle this year.  You know … the referee says, “I see this” and the players say, “But I saw that.”  See-saw.  Oh, and there were occasional scores as well.  No idea how many.  And there may or may not have been one series of downs where that old guy on the sidelines was called into action to complete a pass or two.  It was a tricky situation to be sure.  He had to wait for the head trainer and team RN to disappear into the clubhouse.  Wouldn’t want her to be worried or anything, especially after her recent bout with injury.  It was just one series of downs, mind you.  And he can go into the record books as the oldest participant ever, overtaking the earlier appearance by the legendary Uncle Jerry many years before.  Of course, Uncle Jerry threw a touchdown pass in his appearance at age 60.  But he had just had serious back surgery.  OK.  Let’s put an asterisk in and leave them both.

 

Finally, the time came for awarding of the Dee Clements Memorial Award.  Fittingly, one of the nominees was Uncle Nathan for his incredible … wait.  That wasn’t him.  He was nominated because he didn’t show up.  It was the second nominee that took the trophy, though.  The award went to Josiah for sacrificing himself in the icy cold waters of the River Sycamore (Read here, he rather unceremoniously rolled through the remaining remnants of rainwater and sludge in the gutter on the side of the street.  But somehow that just doesn’t sound as glamorous).  He almost lost his chance at the nomination, however, when he expressed a desire to go inside and change clothes.  Nope.  This is true football, my young friend.  Press on. 

 

Colossians 1:13 says, “For he has rescued us from the dominion of darkness and brought us into the kingdom of the Son he loves.”

 

Father, thank you for fun traditions and the family to carry them on.  Amen.

Sunday, November 29, 2020

November 29 – “Professional Phamily Photo Phenomenon”

Ah, Saturday.  THE Saturday.  The day of our Professional Phamily Photo Phenomenon.  And we awoke to rain.  Lots of rain.  And the prospects for the morrow?  More of the same.  Or if not, then a change to blustery coldness.  It looked like the photo session was in serious jeopardy.

 

We didn’t worry about it right away, though.  Too much else going on.  I mean, we HAD to watch How the Grinch Stole Christmas, right?  And April really outdid herself.  When she arrived she brought with her some potato salad, a casserole, a cheese ball, and who knows what else.  And Nathan brought over a flounder that he stuffed and prepared for baking for Chris.  Add that to the speckled trout and flounder fillets courtesy of Mr. Bob the Seasider that became the center of the fish fry, and we had quite the feast for the eighteen of us. 

 

Oh, and Chris and I had a mini-photo shoot of our own.  We took pics wearing our brand new t-shirts.  They were a gifts from our friends, the Huntley’s.  Official Hallmark Channel Movie Watching Shirts.  Even had a little sticker on the shoulder indicating they were shipped with the official Hallmark Housekeeping Seal of Approval.  Thank you, Larry and Diane.

 

When it became apparent that the pro photo shoot was not going to happen – emails were exchanged, and the cancellation was made official – we were resigning ourselves to the hope of a random, accidental picture of at least most of us.  Chris was saddened, of course, but she is learning every day more and more about not stressing over things outside of her control. 

 

When out of the blue I received a text.  It was from Lauren, the Seasider.  She was offering to come over and take some family pictures for us.  She just figured that since the weather was bad the other photo shoot wouldn’t happen, and she knew Chris really wanted a family picture.  And Lauren used to work for a photographer.  And she had a really good camera.  She would be here in thirty minutes.  Yikes.  The announcement was made, and the flurry of activity began.  Nathan and April ran home to change.  Bodies were being clad in the selected, Mom-approved gear.  By the time Lauren arrived, the transformation was amazing.  So amazing that Kel had even grown a head of hair.  You’ll have to wait for the pictures on that one.  Lauren did a great job arranging us in several poses, and better yet, she got some really silly (as well as some really sweet) candid shots as well.  The photo shoot was saved. 

 

After the shoot the kids scurried up into the attic to get down our Christmas decorations.  I think Cailyn was the one actually up there.  She would push boxes down and the assembly line of Zak, Micah, Jachin, Caleb, Josiah, and Luke would receive them and haul them to the family room.  In there, Aunt Christina spearheaded efforts to get the tree put together.  Cailyn, Noa and AnnaGrace got the lights all strung, with the help of Aunt Christi and Aunt April and occasionally Uncle Kel. 

 

Just before dark Uncle Nathan took the older guys to the park.  Uncle Josh joined them soon after.  No, not to play on the swings or slide down a slide.  It was time for Airsoft Wars.  After all, the Turkey Bowl was canceled due to unplayable conditions with all the rain.  SOMETHING had to take its place, right?  And who better to come up with a “Something” than the infamous Uncle Nathan?  And throw in Uncle Josh … a pair of uncles.  Can’t beat that hand for all out fun with airsoft guns.  They all came back, too.  No visible casualties.  Wet and tired, but happy. 

 

Nani hopes to have some further help with tree and house decorating this afternoon.  I’m just hoping we get enough done so that we can get some help putting all those boxes back in the attic.  Otherwise they will end up stacked in the garage until after Christmas sometime. 

 

Psalms 95:6 says, “Come, let us bow down in worship, let us kneel before the Lord our Maker.”

 

Father, thank you for all those who had a hand in making our family Thanksgiving truly a family happiness gathering.  Bless the Huntley’s and Lauren and Mr. Bob for all contributing more than they realize.  And as for this family?  You did really good there.  Amen.

Saturday, November 28, 2020

November 28 – “Gotta love flexibility …”

Sounds like we are once again heading back to old school for church on Sunday.  Heard yesterday from our worship pastor about the issues we have been having with our projector.  Looks to be an issue with the cord connecting the projector with the computer.  He ordered a new one.  In the meantime we will revert to running off copies of the song words and visual verse.  Gotta love flexibility …

 

The rainy season finally arrived in Galveston.  We had a few sprinkles yesterday, but it looks like today will be a full day of it.  At least in the eyes of the professional weather forecasters it will be.  We know a certain mailman who thinks it may not be as bad as all that.  And mail men have been known to out-forecast the forecasters.  We’ll be watching with bated breath.  Why?  We are scheduled for a big family photo shoot this afternoon at four.  Outside.  On the beach.  Plan B is something at a Christmas tree farm in Manvel tomorrow at two.  That’s a quick turnaround after church in the morning.  Gotta love flexibility …

 

Yesterday was pretty chaotic, as usual.  The Waco cousins finally made it.  And of course the LaMarque cousins were already here waiting for them.  Cailyn got here after a while, too.  All ten of them were flying around here for most of the day.  It was fun chaos, though.  Josh and Luke practiced some football plays in hopes that the Turkey Bowl went on as scheduled.  Cailyn, Noa, and Ezra all developed creative role-play games.  The bed of the truck became a food truck.  Ezra delivered the food (including ice cream, he made sure to tell me) using the dolly he found in the garage and a stack of empty boxes.  AnnaGrace could be seen gliding about on the riding toy she found to her liking.  The new location for video games worked well, and the office was the site for many a contest all day long (and not just for Jachin, Micah, Zak, Josiah, and Caleb.  The little guys had their turns as well).  Gotta love flexibility …

 

Today promises to be just as wild and crazy, rain or no rain.  Guess I’d better finish up and get out of the gaming room … er, office before the thundering hordes arrive …

 

Numbers 6:24-26 says, “The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face shine on you and be gracious to you; the Lord turn his face toward you and give you peace.”

 

Father, thanks for this rain, even if it means no photo session this time.  Gotta love flexibility.  It is a gift from you.  Amen.

Friday, November 27, 2020

November 27 – “A 2020 Thanksgiving at the Vaughan’s”

Well, Thanksgiving Day 2020 is in the books.  Not that the holidays are over for us.  Not yet.  Josh and his family are due to arrive this morning.  They have been at Christi’s parents for a few days, and they found out yesterday that they have been very indirectly contact traced to have been in contact with someone who had been in contact with someone who had been in contact with someone who had been in contact with someone who contracted the Covid.  I don’t know if I counted all the “been in contact with’s,” but it sounded really distant to me.  Come on down.  The Galveston salt air will probably kill the virus anyway.  Besides, it wouldn’t be Thanksgiving 2020 with at least some talk of the dreaded Covid.  Cailyn and her Mom are back from their excursion to see April’s Grandma, and Nathan is off, so they will be here.  And with the allure of that many cousins, the LaMarque crew will certainly not be able to stay away.  Deep breath, and here we go …

 

But as for yesterday, we started the day by turning on the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day parade.  Very odd.  Oh, they showed all the floats and balloons.  They even did all the performances.  But there were no grandstands.  No people cheering and waving.  Santa made his appearance, but I’m wondering just who he was waving to?  After a while I switched over to Netflix to watch the new Christmas Chronicles II movie.  Very cute stuff.  Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell play Mr. and Mrs. Santa Claus.  Spoiler alert … Once again, Christmas is saved.

 

Kel and his crew came over for the Thanksgiving Day lunch hour.  Sam was her as well.  She brought her famous corn casserole.  Christina brought a big ham and some sweet potatoes.  So we had quite the array of goodies: dead bird and pig (ham, not bacon), cornbread dressing, green beans, corn, green salad, mashed potatoes, crescent rolls, the afore-mentioned corn casserole, and the pie shelf of pecan, pumpkin (with homemade whipped cream), and apple.  Hey, I didn’t post the required food picture of everything on FaceBook, so I understand that this is the next best thing. 

 

Of course after a meal like that it was time for a nap.  Kel and his older boys are involved in a fantasy football league, so we turned on the NFL.  It is very odd to hear them cheer for individual players of either team, no matter what the score is.  I think the Texans won and the Cowboys lost. But nobody seemed to care about that extraneous bit of information.  It was all about how the players on their individual teams did.  Just … odd.

 

Nathan stopped by on his way home from work, so he was able to grab a plate full of food before he headed home to crash into bed.  Everybody left soon after their portion of leftovers was distributed.  Chris and I slumped onto the couch and watched an old episode of FaceOff before giving up and heading for bed before ten.  We had to get an hour or two of sleep in before the wonderful wildness begins again.  We are still holding out hope for the Phamily Photo Session that is scheduled for 4 p.m. on Saturday.  That would be the same Saturday that the weather service is currently predicting will have a 100% chance of thunderstorms.  Oh, well.  No sense sweating the stuff we have no control over … 

 

Galatians 6:10 says, “Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers.”

 

Father, thank you for our family.  Protect all of them and keep them close to you and to each other.  Amen.

Thursday, November 26, 2020

November 26 – “I can’t wait”

Cailyn was back.  She called in the morning and I answered her with my typically glorious rendition of “I’m a Nut.”  By the time that was over, she was re-thinking her desire to join us for the day.  The allure of cousins and the chance to be involved in making pies was more than she could handle, though.  Well, that and the chance to see me in person, of course.  I popped over and picked her up and together we awaited the arrival of the cousins contingent.  And whole she waited she and Nana made some chocolate chip cookies.  Gotta get the cookie jar filled up, you know? 

 

Kel’s gang finally arrived in the afternoon.  Micah had to go to the eye doc for an appointment first.  His dilated pupils didn’t stop him from enjoying a Lifetime movie, though.  Jachin joined in that pastime as well.  Parents, it’s amazing what activities your teenage boys can enjoy together, given the “proper” motivation.  Oh, and what’s the proper motivation?  Simply throw in a Grandad or maybe an uncle or two to provide running commentary.  Works every time.

 

The goal of the day was to get some pies baked.  And Nana had plenty of help in the kitchen.  Ezra was right in the middle of it all, and the two girls were mother-henning all over the place.  I can’t wait to taste the apple pies they made, though.  Ezra dumped a whole bowl of sugar-cinnamon mixture over the top of his.  And the bottom fell out of the shaker Noa was using, so she had some difficulty controlling the flow of the one she was responsible for.  Like I said … I can’t wait …

 

Cailyn also took some time to teach Noa some softball basics out in the backyard.  Josiah was doing all the heavy lifting for me out there as we put away the turkey fryers until next year.  Strong little dude.  I had to clean out the pots we used, so that meant avoiding Chris gaze.  It did involve bending and a little bit of lifting.  I tried to keep the lifting to a minimum.  However, I am sore in the old back this morning.  Guess I’ll try to take it easy today. 

 

Kel brought over the air turkey fryer he has never used.  No, that’s not the same as an air guitar.  It just means the contraption cooks whole turkeys using no grease.  He had to put it together first (The fryer, not the turkey).  The assembly instructions were reminiscent of something from IKEA, but he managed to pull it off.  The actual cooking process took almost two hours, but cleanup was way easier.  In fact, he packed it up in the car and drove on home after the meal.  And speaking of the meal, it made a pretty good turkey.  Soaked up my ketchup just fine …

 

Psalms 100:4-5 says, “Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name.  For the Lord is good and his love endures forever; his faithfulness continues through all generations.”

 

Father, thank you for preparation days and helpers in the kitchen and the backyard.  Oh, and for Lifetime movies that grasp the attention of teenage boys.  Amen.

Wednesday, November 25, 2020

November 25 – “It’s Pie Day”

The heavy trash pick-up has been accomplished.  That means all the branches and old palm tree portions that our grandkids so graciously hauled to the street were safely tucked away into the back of a huge truck - the kind of truck with the monster claw that grabs the debris and drops it away.  Oh, there was also a guy with boots on the ground.  His job was to sweep things all together into one pile for the claw.  He did … an okay job.  I would have given him a hard pass, but he didn’t quite meet Chris’ rigid Thanksgiving specifications.  That led to her exercise of the day.  She picked up the branch or two that was left in the yard.  It really wasn’t much, so be assured, oh thou ever-watchful guardian eyes that belong to our children, she didn’t over-exert.  She did spend a good deal of time leaning against the truck.  No, she wasn’t recovering her strength from doing too much.  She was comparing stent notes with our neighbor who we haven’t seen in a while.  I guess it’s nice to have something in common.  Give you plenty to talk about.  So … does anybody want to see my back surgery scar?

 

On an inside note … all the floor sweeping is done.  Clean sheets are on the beds.  Bathrooms are spotless.  Vacuuming is done (I did that one.  No, I didn’t pick anything up.  Just shoved stuff out of the way).  We are ready for the onslaught of cuteness due in today for … Pie Day.  It’s that annual event where the kitchen become the scene of flour and sugar and cinnamon and apples and pumpkin and spices and pecans and little hands all covered in the same.  The smell is wonderful.  Cailyn is coming over this morning to spend the day.  Kel is bringing his family to join in the fun as well.  I guess they’ll be here sometime this morning as well.  Actually, I predict the girls and probably Ezra will end up in the kitchen.  Kel wants to try out his new air turkey fryer on a turkey they have, so he’s bringing that along.  We need some help cleaning the big pots from when we fried turkeys the other day, so the guys will be put to work on that end.  Pie Day.  Can we add that to the week and make it happen 52 times a year?

 

Psalms 9:1-2 says, “I give thanks to you, Lord, with all my heart; I will tell of all your wonderful deeds.  I will be glad and rejoice in you; I will sing the praises of your name, O Most High.”

 

Father, thank you for Pie Days.  It is amazing how combining a few ingredients can create such an amazing aroma and even better taste.  Amen.

Tuesday, November 24, 2020

November 24 - “a real, actual donkey”

We were charged with allowing Cailyn to hang out with us yesterday. Always a fun day. She generally calls us when she is ready and we drive over and pick her up. I had an errand to run this particular day, however, so I decided to start the communications process. Just to keep in the swing of things and make sure I hadn’t forgotten, I texted her these immortal words:

“Hey you! This is DadDad! Get up! Get outta the bed! Don’t be a grunt, you big ol’ head! I’m an acorn, small and round ...

Hey! Now that you’re awake anyway, wanna go out to the church with me? I have to pick something up”


It was classic. She obviously loved it. I received an answer almost immediately. She would be ready in a jiffy. Well, she didn’t say “jiffy” but I’m pretty sure that’s what she meant. 


I headed on over to pick her up, and we headed out to the church. Our task there was to make some changes to the marquee. I already had the info up about our upcoming community singalong. Great event, by the way. Jim and his Salty Sounds Band (often aka some members of the Seaside Praise Team) will be there. We’ll set up under the retreat center, serve hot chocolate and Christmas cookies, and just sing some Christmas songs for an hour or so (start time is 5:30 pm, by the way). Problem was, we had to change the date because of a scheduling conflict with the Jamaica Beach city Christmas event. Our sign said Dec 5th. Our event is now on the 6th. I also had to add one other important tidbit of info. We are also doing a new toy drive for Galveston Urban Ministries. We’re encouraging folks to bring a toy with them to donate. Not required, just requested. We’ll get them to G.U.M.  


Ok. Enough with the commercial. Moving on ...


We got the changes made and headed back to the house. Cailyn called to check on Chris on the way, so I heard a play by play of our journey through the eyes of an 11-year-old girl. The absolute highlight of the whole narrative?  She saw a donkey. A real donkey. I had no idea of the appeal a “real, actual donkey” would have. 


Back at the house she continued her enamorment with animals and joined me in walking with Freddy around the the block too. My back and hip didn’t start bothering me until almost the end. That’s encouraging. 


Later I took her to softball practice not far from the house. I also hung out and watched. It was cold. Reminded me of Denver and their restrictions about playing on the cold. Temperature had to be below 32 degrees to cancel. Even if it was snowing. Maybe it wasn’t so cold at Cailyn’s practice, after all. Besides, I was wearing shorts, a T-shirt and a windbreaker. 

But I have said and continue to say, unequivocally, baseball is not a winter sport. 


Proverbs 12:25 says, “Anxiety weighs down the heart, but a kind word cheers it up.”


Father, thank you for Cailyn’s help yesterday. She is a keeper. Amen. 

Monday, November 23, 2020

November 23 - “Snuck up on us”


We had kind of a small crowd at church yesterday, but our online attendance was up a bit. Kind of levels out I guess. Chris told me the teaching went a long time. Longer than usual for sure. Two reasons I think. One is that happens when I am tired. It’s hard for me to focus. And even a little pain has a way of making you tired. Not to mention concern for your wife’s health. Combine that with a desire to get all the cliffhangers in the story on the table before Advent starts and a different focus begins. Sorry about the length. It was great to have a new voice added to the praise team, too. Sonya sounded great with the guys.


Speaking of Advent, we did the hanging of the greens yesterday. It felt like kind of spur of the moment decision, but it was more of a “this one really snuck up on us in the midst of a lot of other things going on” scramble. We did have a fabulous response, though. Lots of people stayed to help, and it really didn’t take very long. It was frustrating for me not to be able to pick up anything to help. It was even more frustrating for Chris. She was relegated to a "point and direct" mode of participation. The worship center looks great now. Thank you to all who helped. 


By the time we made it home we were both pretty exhausted. I vaguely recall skimming through the TV channels and seeing some football games. Did I really see that the Texans and the Cowboys won?  Yay, I guess. I do remember struggling to stay awake through a Hallmark movie. That’s some important stuff, you know. Hate to miss it. 


1 John 4:19 says, “We love because he first loved us.”


Father, thank you for all the help that stuck around after church. Bless them for their efforts. Amen. 

Sunday, November 22, 2020

November 22 – “We snuck off”

Ah, Saturday.  Welcome respite, not from the trials of a frantic business week.  Oh, no.  That’s old news.  And the rest from the frustrations of living in a Covid-ized Culture where you can’t see anyone smiling behind his mask doesn’t come until this morning at church. This was the relief from sitting at home and having nothing new to think about.  And so we tend to return to what is now old news.  Pains in the back.  Heart attacks.  Sermon reviews.  What we will wear for our family pictures next weekend.  College football is fun to watch, but it can only go so far when none of your favorite teams is playing. 

 

And so, we snuck off.  Not to some sub-exotic travel destination, though.  This time we were headed for … WalMart.  What more perfect stomping grounds for a break than where the abnormal is normal?  Oh we didn’t see anything weird this time.  And we weren’t there all that long.  After all, it was Saturday in WalMart on the weekend before Thanksgiving.  Tourists abounded, grabbing their provisions for the week – cokes and chips and fishing poles and all manner of alcoholic beverage.  Not so many beach toys, though.  The water is getting a little colder.  Although it not so cold that it has ceased creation of tropical storms.  Chris showed me yesterday that there is yet another disturbance drifting around out there near Florida.  Where do we go for names when we run out of Greek alphabet – Hebrew?

 

Anyway, we made our brief WalMart run.  Had to keep it brief because Chris does get winded easier than usual.  That’s her biggest frustration, other than keeping track of all the pills she has to take now.  We picked up some fruit and face lotion and a few extras for a heart-healthy breakfast.  They didn’t have the Thanksgiving ham Chris wanted, though.  Looking for something put out by Armour.  Maybe we can find one next week. 

 

I think maybe we were the WalMart oddballs people were watching this time.  At least when we got to the soft drink aisle.  It was kind of comical watching the two of us.  I’m still not supposed to lift anything more than a gallon of milk.  Chris has the same limitation, except it only applies to her right hand, where the arterial invasion took place.  To get the Pepsi’s and Root Beers into the cart, I knelt on the floor and slid them off the shelf and directly onto the bottom rack of the basket.  Meanwhile Chris held the basket so it wouldn’t roll away.  Teamwork at its finest.  That was kind of fun, though.  The hard part for me came when Chris had to carry them into our house with her left hand.  I could only watch.  Frustrating.  But we made it through the WalMart run none the less for wear.  We both crashed on the couch for a good while when we got back home.  Another day in the life of the post-surgical sixty-somethings …

 

Psalms 107:1 says, “Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; his love endures forever.”

 

Father, thank you that we are still capable of getting around enough to enjoy the little things … like a WalMart run.  Amen.

Saturday, November 21, 2020

November 21 – “Turkey Fry-day (and a back report)”

Yesterday was Fryday.  No, Spell-check.  That’s not a typo.  It was the day we fry turkeys for Thanksgiving and to freeze for eating on the rest of the year.  But first …

 

Yesterday was also my first follow-up appointment with the neurosurgeon.  The primary purpose was to remove the staples in my back.  I did have a few questions as well, though.  The staple removal went well.  It did sting a bit; I won’t lie.  But they all came out without incident, and the site looks like it is supposed to.  I guess.  I couldn’t see it.  On to the question phase.  I filled the resident in on what I have been experiencing over the last few weeks, including my Day Three traumatics.  She just listened patiently.  (By the way, I’m not scheduled to see the actual neurosurgeon until January – eight weeks post-op.  But I did pass him in the hall.  He recognized me and asked, “Is it better?”  A man of few words, you know).  I then launched into my questions.  Here they are with her responses:

Can I do back stretches and exercises for my lower back, which is also messed up?

            Not until four weeks post-op (That’s next Friday).

Can I Bend, like to tie my shoes and the like?

            Yes, within reason (whatever that means)

Can I Lift?

            No.  After four weeks post-op you can start adding maybe a pound or two to your gallon of milk limit, but … no (Chris translated this to mean, “Wait and ask the neurosurgeon at your eight-weeks follow-up).

Can I Twist?

            Yes, within reason (whatever that means)

Can I Drive?

            Yes (Pretty unequivocable.  I drove us home to celebrate)

Her bottom line was actually pretty sound advice to combat recuperation depression.  “You need to measure progress week by week or even month by month rather than day by day.”  So the idea is, I need to ask myself, “Is it better today than it was last Friday?  Or Monday of last week?”  To that I suppose I have to answer, “yes.”  So … progress.  Thank you very much.

 

And back to Turkey FryDay.  We had an absolute houseful for the big event (not what we expected.  In years past Nathan has come over to help me with the lifting).  This time Kel and his entire family were here, and Nathan brought his whole family as well.  It was almost Thanksgiving before Thanksgiving.  Little kids were running around everywhere.  Even Brennan came over from across the street to join the fray.  And in the middle of it all Dirk arrived with a pizza and some salad for a meal for me and Chris.  Thanks so much Dirk and Paige (and it is so good to have you guys back on the Island.  We missed you).

 

Nathan organized the kids, both to do our yard work and to help him cut down a palm tree that was threatening both our house and the health and growth of a nearby sycamore tree.  The kids hauled the branches (and there were a substantial amount of them) to the street for pickup.  Nathan, Micah, Jachin, and even Kel with his foot still in a boot all helped with the turkey lifting.  We ended up frying ten turkeys this year.  They will be apportioned and/or frozen to better make use of the delectable delights of meat they provide.  Oh, what did I do?  I stood in the kitchen most of the time.  Washing pans and carving turkeys.  And yes, I am pretty sore this morning.  Maybe I’ll skip my scheduled walk around the block today and just take it easy …

 

3 John 1:2 says, “Dear friend, I pray that you may enjoy good health and that all may go well with you, even as your soul is getting along well.”

 

Father, thank you for all the help we had around here yesterday.  We were, in a word, overwhelmed.  Amen.

Friday, November 20, 2020

November 20 – “… do whatever I tell her”

I made my third day in a row of walking half a mile.  I think it’s getting better.  There seems to be less residual pain and soreness each time.  The last few nights I haven’t even taken Tylenol at bedtime.  Meanwhile Chris made three laps around the house.  She is still getting winded, but, hey … progress is progress.  Woohoo!

 

Speaking of Chris, she got a haircut yesterday.  Drove herself to the salon (Do they still call them salons?).  Tiny baby steps back to normalcy?

 

I tried my hand at doing some more work on our latest jigsaw puzzle.  Found a few pieces.  Sadly, Freddy decided to try her mouth at helping out.  Somehow she found an errant piece that had made its way onto the floor.  Or maybe she jumped onto the chair and helped herself.  Either way she chewed it almost beyond recognition.  Just leaving her mark, I guess.

 

The absolute highlight of our day came when the mail was delivered.  No, I don’t mean we got to hear Freddy announce the mail lady’s presence, although that is quite the presentation.  We actually received several cards from friends who wanted to express their love and concern and encouragement after hearing about my back surgery followed so closely by Chris’ heart attack.  It was really great to hear from them.  Especially the one that told Chris to listen to me and do whatever I tell her.  OK, I may have slightly embellished that last part, but I’m pretty sure that’s what Melissa meant …

 

Hebrews 13:5 says, “Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, ‘Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.’”

 

Father, thank you for the friends you have gifted us with through the years. Especially the ones who have shown their love over the last few days/weeks.  Bless them for that.  Amen.

Thursday, November 19, 2020

November 19 – “Prepare the Turkeys Day”

Lots of activity around our house yesterday.  It was Prepare the Turkeys Day.  Yep, this is the annual celebration that was briefly postponed a day earlier when said turkeys were found to be frozen solid.  Adjustments were made to the refrigerator thermostat and a day was added to the schedule.  Sadly, that meant Nathan and April could no longer be involved in the Turkey Rub process.  They were headed back to work.  So instead, Kel and his family rose to the occasion and stood in the gap. 

 

Micah and Jachin were the primary turkey haulers, with Josiah grabbing a few as well.  Noa and even Ezra pitched in to help Nana with the actual rubbing of the seasonings onto – and into – the turkeys.  Micah was more than a little queasy about flat out touching a raw turkey.  And when the suggestion was made that they use the giblets for a science lesson, he was nowhere to be found.  Jachin wasn’t very excited at the prospect, either.  So “someone” may or may not have used that information to bring them a section of the bird’s gullet and tell them it was the part of the artery that Nana had blocked and repaired.  Jachin almost touched it, thinking it was a noodle.  Closer examination caused him to jump like he had been shot.  Noa, on the other hand, was all over that idea.  She was particularly interested in seeing the creature’s heart.  Ever the curious scientist …

 

Over the course of the day the team prepared and rubbed down ten turkeys, all ready for frying now.  That process takes place on Friday.  We hope to have Uncle Nathan back for that task, but Cailyn has been feeling a bit puny, so we’ll see. 

 

Oh, and we had some good food as part of the workday.  Christina brought over some taquitos for lunch.  Then we had roast that she had cooking in a crockpot for supper.  Good stuff.  They left right after we ate to get to their karate lessons. 

 

Chris finally got through to her brand new doc – a cardiologist.  She talked to the nurse in his office and was able to ask some of the questions she has been having.  The main one was concerning the chest and back pains she has been having since the surgery.  They told us at the hospital that some pains were normal, but they should subside after a few days.  She just wanted to know how long should we consider “a few days.”  After a long discussion on the specifics of the symptoms, another new medication was called into play and into the pharmacy at Randall’s.  Corey was at home and agreed to give me a ride to pick up the prescription.  It really feels weird to have to rely on other people for just about everything.  But the cardiologist said Chris could drive now.  Actually he said she should have a full week of pretty much full rest first.  And I finally have my back surgery follow-up on Friday.  Hopefully I will be given the go-ahead to drive as well.  And Bend.  And Lift.  And Twist.  Hmm.  BLT.  I’m getting hungry …

 

Romans 10:17 says, “Consequently, faith comes from hearing the message, and the message is heard through the word about Christ.”

 

Father, thank you for the family you blessed us with, both by blood and by your Spirit.  Amen.

Wednesday, November 18, 2020

November 18 – “Postponed …”

We were all set to get started on applying the frying seasoning rub to ten turkeys yesterday.  That was after Chris and April returned from Chris’ doctor’s appointment.  That was kind of anticlimactic, as doctor’s appointments go, however.  It was just with her PCP, and the purpose was just to make sure the PCP knew she had been in the hospital.  Impressively enough, the doc knew everything there was to know about the hospital stay, as well as about all the tests she had run.  Chris did ask the few questions she had for her.  And April declared that she liked her (the doc, not Chris.  What April thinks of her mother-in-law is still a closely guarded secret). 

 

So, after the doctor visit, the plan was to come back over here and April would help with the turkeys.  Imagine my surprise when they walk in with a third human being trailing behind them.  April said they picked this derelict up on the side of the road.  Actually, it was Nathan.  He was here to do all the heavy lifting.  He grabbed the first three turkeys and slapped them down on the counter, only to discover that they were still frozen almost solid.  Uh-oh.  He checked the rest of them as well, and all were suffering the same fate.  That meant a postponement of the turkey rub party.  They adjusted the setting on the fridge and vowed to return today to try again. 

 

We received another meal from the good folks at Seaside last night.  Amber and Sam brought over some lasagna and salad.  Good stuff.  They also brought some slabs of ribs to be cooked another day.  That was from Nancy.  Thank you so much, guys.  It’s great to feel loved.

 

John 11:25-26 says, “Jesus said to her, ‘I am the resurrection and the life.  The one who believes in me will live, even though they die; and whoever lives by believing in me will never die.  Do you believe this?’”

 

Father, please bless these food-bearing folks.  Honor their ministry actions with your love in their lives.  Amen.

Tuesday, November 17, 2020

November 17 – “Not at all exciting”

Well, it’s not even six in the morning yet, and here I am sitting at the computer, typing away.  For me, that’s the benefit/curse of going to bed just after nine in the evening.  Eight hours of sleep is simply the upper end of my sleep limit.  Beyond that and my body feels like it’s wasting time.

 

But back to the patient at hand.  Chris did have some more bouts of nausea during the day yesterday, but she didn’t have any more practical application of said bouts.  OK.  In other words, she didn’t actually throw up, just felt like she might.  That’s one of the things at the top of her list for her doctor appointment today.  Actually, the top of the list is getting her doc to expedite the follow-up with the cardiologist so he can continue fixing the blood pressure medications.  Also, she did sleep a lot.  That’s a good thing, I think. 

 

We enjoyed the supper that Cathy brought over.  Well, me more than Chris.  It was our favorite to-go meal from Shrimp n Stuff.  I had fried shrimp, of course.  Chris had grilled shrimp tacos.  She didn’t eat a whole lot, but she did get some down.  It was fun chatting with Cathy well.  Hmm.  Chatting with Cathy.  Chatty Cathy.  Wasn’t that a “thing” at one time?

 

With Chris laid up on the couch most of the day (well, in between loads of laundry she insisted she was fine to get done), I spent most my time at the computer working on church stuff.  Not at all exciting stuff for the blog of the decade, is it?  But after this past weekend, we can us a few days of “not at all exciting.”

 

1 Peter 1:24-25 says, “For, ‘All people are like grass, and all their glory is like the flowers of the field; the grass withers and the flowers fall, but the word of the Lord endures forever.’”

 

Father, thank you for a day or two of “not exciting.”  I do love your surprises, though.  They are the best.  Bring them on.  Amen.

Monday, November 16, 2020

November 16 – “Inside”

It has sure felt good to sleep in our own bed the last few nights.  Well, I have been there every night, but I mean both of us.  Last night Chris had a rough one, though.  Vomiting and diarrhea.  She thinks it might have been something she ate (she hasn’t eaten much), but I plan for her to include a mention of said malady when she calls for her follow-up this week. 

 

I caught a ride to church with Corey yesterday.  Good to have neighbors close by when you haven’t been cleared to drive yet and your wife is laid up recuperating from a heart attack.   Chris stayed home to crash and do some more processing of her whirlwind weekend.  She has a list of questions going.  A long list.  Those docs better get ready.

 

Yesterday was our first Sunday back inside the building.  We didn’t make any restrictions, just encouraged everyone to follow their own decision about the Covrus.  How’s that for a new nickname for the dreaded Corona Covid Virus Thing?  Several wore masks.  Others didn’t.  All were respectful and loving.  Gee.  It felt like church or something.  We had a pretty good crowd, too.  I counted 47 people from where I was standing.  Lots of excitement all around.  The singing was great.  Jim chose a few newer songs, but amazingly (well, Holy Spirit-ingly) they went along with the teaching perfectly.  We did have a computer glitch, though.  We couldn’t get the Mediashout program to cast the right image to the projector.  We adapted, though, and we got through it fine.  Maybe somebody will figure it out soon.  I sure couldn’t, and I tried for quite a while after church.

 

After church we had Third Sunday Dinner on the Grounds.  A good crowd stayed for that, too.  27 out of the 47.  Let’s see, that would be … around 57%, right?  Pretty good.  And they wouldn’t let me do anything.  It was great to see the different ones taking charge.  And there were lots of prayers and good wishes for Chris in there as well.  You know what?  I kind of like those people.

 

Chris got check-ins from all three of her boys throughout the day.  One would think they might love their mother …

 

We pretty much crashed all afternoon.  Lauren brought over some supper for us.  We watched a few movies after that.  Then it was off to bed shortly after nine.  Wow.  Such an early bedtime.  Makes you feel like you’re getting old, huh?

 

James 5:13 says, “Is anyone among you in trouble?  Let them pray.  Is anyone happy?  Let them sing songs of praise.”

 

Father, thank you for the prayers and good wishes and words of encouragement yesterday.  I know they came from lots of different mouths, but ultimately, they were from you.  Amen.