Sunday, September 9, 2018

September 9 – “A little late”


I had another of those wonderful creations called weddings last night.  It was scheduled to take place on the beach at 5 p.m.  That was actually a lucky choice of times, because when we went down for the rehearsal we discovered that there was going to be another wedding on the exact same random spot on the beach.  As it happened, their wedding was to be at 4 p.m.  In the words of the guy who informed us, “As long as we get started right at 4, the ceremony should only last about seven minutes and we should be gone in plenty of time for you guys to set up.”  OK.  There were altogether too many “should’s” in that statement, but our set-up guys were fine with it. 

Fast forward to last night.  I arrived about 30 minutes before the event, a good span of time to triple-check everything.  There were a few folks already on site.  Four people who had driven in from Missouri.  The groom’s grandparents.  Bob and Amber from Seaside.  But no bride.  No groom.  No wedding party.  So we waited.  And waited.  The temperature was 84 degrees with a heat index of 99.  Not a completely comfortable situation, even with the cool Gulf breeze.  Five o’clock came and went.  I read through my wedding notes and jokingly announced that we could all probably just head on home and let the bride and groom know they had been hitched by proxy.  Five fifteen.  Five thirty.  I began to be worried about Grandma and Grandpa (and one other grandpa with whom I am rather intimately involved – Me.  I was getting pretty miserable).  I finally had to walk back to the car to cool down some.  I even texted the bride to see if someone could bring some water when they came.  Five forty-five.  I began texting Chris to let her know what was happening.  Six o’clock.  Was that a new car entering the parking lot?  Yes.  The groom and his entourage have arrived.  I joined them on the beach … to wait some more.  This time I brought our umbrella from the car and handed it to Amber so she could surreptitiously provide shade for Grandma, at least.  The groom explained something about a makeup issue.  Ah.  That does explain everything.  Then the photographer arrived.  “They are right behind me.  They should be leaving in five or ten minutes.” 

Everyone did finally arrive, and we got started a little after six.  Not all that late when you factor in the Island time differential.  The wedding itself went off without a hitch, and we were back at the beach house for the reception dinner by seven or so.  That’s when the really exciting moment of the evening occurred.  There were citronella candles lit everywhere in an effort to ward off the tiny flying vampires that now inhabit the Island after our bout with rain last week.  As we stood around talking and waiting, the bride’s sister, the maid of honor, mentioned that she was particularly hot in the bridesmaid’s dress she was wearing.  Suddenly she realized that the heat was not from the muggy night air.  “My dress is on fire!” she cried.  Fortunately, the dress was made of some kind of material that didn’t actually burn.  It just melted into a blob of burnt plastic looking gunk.  She got it stopped as soon as she moved away from the flame, but was, of course, mortified that it had happened at all.  As it turned out everyone else had a great laugh at her expense.  Especially her father.  He’s a fire fighter back in Missouri.  He told me he really wished he had been there when it happened.  “I would have turned the hose on her, for sure.”  I think that he wasn’t kidding …

The food was great (catered by Benno’s).  Stuffed shrimp and some kind of chicken.  Once everyone got their shot of mosquito spray, we were able to enjoy the meal in relative peace.  I did have to share my shrimp with a particularly persistent critter.  Otherwise he might have flown away with the whole thing.  Hey, our mosquitoes are monstrosities here, you know? 

All the required wedding stuff got done.  It was a successful venture and a good start to a new life for the young couple.  May God walk with them.

Psalms 97:12 says, “Rejoice in the Lord, you who are righteous, and praise his holy name.”

Father, I echo that prayer, may you walk with Sarah and Alex in their life together.  Amen.

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